Kazalo:
- 1. "Verjamem v vaše sanje."
- 2. "Super vesel si me."
- 3. "Izgledaš neverjetno!"
- 4. "Zaradi mene se počutim kot doma."
- 5. "Neverjetno ste smešni!"
- 6. "Všeč mi je tvoj slog."
- 7. "Vedno bom imel tvoj hrbet, ne glede na vse."
- 8. "Ti si tista, ki sem si jo vedno želel!"
- 9. "Zaljubljen sem v vse, kar počneš zame."
- 10. "Rad te imam takšnega, kot si."
- 11. "Resnično mi je všeč, kako se počutim posebno."
- 12. "Navdihujete me, da gledam dlje od očitnega."
- 13. "Izgledaš res dobro!"
- 14. “Times spent with you are the favorite part of my life.”
- 15. “You are so easy to talk to.”
- 16. “You are my favorite super chef!”
- 17. “You make me feel like a queen.”
- 18. “You are a good man, and I am proud of you.”
- 19. “I trust you – completely.”
- 20. “You have changed my life for the best.”
- 21. “I love hanging out with you – even if we are doing nothing.”
Ste se kdaj počutili dva centimetra višjega, ko ste prejeli prisrčen kompliment? Za dekleta je to walkwalk. Vendar je pohvaliti moškega nekoliko težje, kot bi pričakovali, kajne? Izziv je razumeti, kaj mu bo povečalo samozavest in ga razveselilo. Čeprav se zdi, da je večina moških utelešenje vsebine in ljubezni do sebe, jim lahko iskrena pohvala polepša dan.
Tukaj je 21 preprostih načinov, kako pohvaliti svojega moškega, ki se mu ne bo mogel upreti in ga znova spraviti v glavo.
1. "Verjamem v vaše sanje."
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Včasih je težko razumeti, kaj se dogaja v skrivnostnem umu človeka, ki ne deli veliko svojih misli. Bodite sir njegovim krekerjem in na glas povejte, da verjamete v njegove sanje. Majhen trepljanje po ramenih in zagotovilo, da mu zaupate in načrti, ki jih ima za vas oba, ga bodo v hipu nasmejali.
2. "Super vesel si me."
Potrebno je le malo truda, da bi bili srečni. Toda ali ste res izrazili veselje, ki vam ga prinaša s svojimi prizadevanji? Cenite drobne otrokove korake, ki jih naredi, naj vam odpre vrata, se spomnite, da naročite svoj najljubši prigrizek, preden ste lačni, ali se samo nasmehnete, ko ga pogledate. Zelo pomembno je, da svojega zmedenega medvedka s tesnim objemom opozorite, kako vas osrečuje.
3. "Izgledaš neverjetno!"
Verjetno ste podcenili čas, ki ga je vsak mesec namenil svojemu popolnoma obloženemu britju, frizuri in spaju. Verjetno se bolj kot ti gleda v ogledalo! Zaradi malo hvaležnosti zaradi njegovih vidnih sprememb, kot sta trebuh ali nova pričeska, se bo počutil negovanega in ljubljenega.
Včasih je iskrena pohvala ljubljene vse, kar si želite polepšati. To je čudovit način, da jim pokažete svojo ljubezen, tako da okrepite njihovo samopodobo in jih osrečite. Uspešen odnos temelji na ljubeči komunikaciji in ljubečih dejanjih. Kako imeti najboljše razmerje v življenju - tečaj mindbodygreen.com vam lahko pomaga najti in ustvariti odnos, ki ga iščete in si zaslužite. Učni video tečaj je zasnovan tako, da vam pomaga izboljšati komunikacijo s partnerjem ali izvedeti več o zapletenosti cvetočih odnosov. Preverite tukaj!
4. "Zaradi mene se počutim kot doma."
Dom je tam, kjer sta mir in toplina. Nič se ne more počutiti bolj toplo in ljubeče, kot če bi ga kdo imenoval srečen dom. Povejte mu, da se počutite tako prijetno, da ste lahko sami z njim. Dajte mu umirjenost, ki jo občuduje, in mu sporočite, da je medvedek mehko in toplo občutek, ki ga imate radi nad njim.
5. "Neverjetno ste smešni!"
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Se spomniš neumne šale, ki jo je zlomil, da bi nas nasmehnil na obraz? Drobna prizadevanja, da bi se hihitala, so čudovita. Moški pogosto radi dobijo priznanje za njihov humor in kako sprožijo tvojo smešno kost. Bodite zraven njega in naj bo vaš smeh najbolj spodbuden v skupini.
6. "Všeč mi je tvoj slog."
Vsi moški se ne sprehajajo v trenirkah in stezah. Nekateri se zavedajo, katera barva jim najbolj ustreza in katera majica naredi njihov trebuh raven. Morda se bodo tudi zelo potrudili, da se z vami pripravijo na zmenek. Takšna prizadevanja ne bi smela ostati brez pozornosti. Poglejte ga vseh bleščečih oči in mu povejte, da bi lahko Brad Pittu vsak dan ponudil težko tekmo.
7. "Vedno bom imel tvoj hrbet, ne glede na vse."
Včasih potrebuje le mirno roko, za katero se drži, ko omahne. Čeprav se od moških pričakuje, da so močni stebri opore, je zelo pomembno, da jim sporočite, da boste ne glede na vse vedno vi tisti, ki jim boste stali ob strani, skozi debele in tanke. Bodite njegov življenjski partner in začutite močne temelje vaših odnosov.
8. "Ti si tista, ki sem si jo vedno želel!"
Ko jih vidimo, kako naredijo kaj super prikupnega, smo ves čas hvaležni in hvaležni vesolju, ker jim je poslalo pot, a smo jim to dejansko povedali? Včasih se bolj trudijo, kot si mislimo, da bi pritegnili našo pozornost in se počutili ljubljene. Če jim rečem, da so gospod pravi, je to lahko zagon, ki ga potrebujejo za prevzem sveta.
9. "Zaljubljen sem v vse, kar počneš zame."
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Ne glede na to, kako enostavno ali lahkotno je videti, moški preživijo enake čustvene pretrese, kot jih preživijo ženske. Način, kako vam pripravi umešana jajca ali poskrbi, da vas ne zebe, ne sme ostati neopažen in neocenjen. Pohvalite ga za vse, kar je dosegel in kaj vsak dan preživi, da nasmeh na obrazu ostane nedotaknjen.
10. "Rad te imam takšnega, kot si."
Ni vedno lahko nekoga sprejeti takšnega, kakršen je. Da, ni popoln. Ima napake. In tudi ti. Sprejem je ključnega pomena za srečen odnos. Povejte mu, da je tisto, kar ste potrebovali, da bi bili srečni, in da ga obožujete ter se zaljubili v to, kar je.
11. "Resnično mi je všeč, kako se počutim posebno."
Pogosto zavidamo, kako dobro moški ravnajo z drugimi ženskami, in trud naših moških jemljemo kot nekaj samoumevnega. Če vas čaka, da vas pobere iz službe, bodite hvaležni. Zahvaljujte se mu za vsako malenkost, ki jo naredi za vas, in poskrbite, da se bo počutil tako posebno, kot on.
12. "Navdihujete me, da gledam dlje od očitnega."
Imeti sorodno dušo za partnerja je blagor. Včasih pa morate obzorja držati široko odprta in mu dati priložnost, da izrazi svoje misli. Mogoče se ne bo ujemalo točno tako, kot mislite, vendar vam bo pomagalo, da ga boste bolje razumeli. Spomnite ga, da vam je všeč, kako razmišlja drugače in kako vam je odprl vrata do načinov dojemanja stvari.
13. "Izgledaš res dobro!"
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Remember checking him out from head to toe the moment he bent down to tie his laces? And you liked what he was wearing? Well, style does not fall from the sky, and he probably spent quality time thinking what to wear, which shoes to go with them, which deodorant would impress you, and which hairstyle would make you go nuts for him. Tell him he looks really good and that you love the way he dresses. Such compliments affect men more than we think they do.
14. “Times spent with you are the favorite part of my life.”
Ever baked a cake together? Or perhaps wrote Christmas cards together? No matter how tiny the work you both engage in, it is always fun when you do it as partners. Tell him that times spent with him are your best memories.
15. “You are so easy to talk to.”
Building a comfort level with someone is not as easy as we think it is. Opening up to someone is even more challenging. One of the biggest compliments you can give is that you feel free to be yourself with him and that he helps bring out the real you.
16. “You are my favorite super chef!”
Men who cook often take a lot of effort in the cooking and presentation to make sure you go mmmmmm … in your lips and yummmmm in your tummy. Applaud him for his Master Chef-winning recipe. It is always fun if you cook together. It is either a tasty outcome, or you have fun messing up together.
17. “You make me feel like a queen.”
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Be it him opening the pickle jar because it was too tightly jammed for you to open, or him holding the umbrella for you in the downpour and preventing you from getting drenched – thank him for all he does to treat you like a queen.
18. “You are a good man, and I am proud of you.”
Remember the time we were given treats and candies every time we did something good? We grew up, right. But men are just little boys who grew long limbs and legs (lol). It is your duty to pat the big boy every now and then and tell him what a good boy he is and that he makes you super proud.
19. “I trust you – completely.”
Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Tell him you trust his values and choices in life. Compliment him on his judgment and decision-making abilities. Make him aware that you look up to him for sound advice on anything concerning your life or relationship.
20. “You have changed my life for the best.”
Self-doubt is more hazardous for your man than you thought it was. The tiny person inside the big man can lock himself up completely if he feels he is not good enough for you. Tell him how important he is to you and how he has changed your life for the best, and he will probably let the tiny little human inside him free again.
21. “I love hanging out with you – even if we are doing nothing.”
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Remind him that his company is the best gift he could give you. Let him know that you would rather stay up cuddled beside him than go to the most exciting place with anyone else. Tell him that you cherish every moment spent with him, even if you are doing mundane, everyday tasks.
Make your guy feel like a hero sent right out of the Marvel universe, and he is bound to blush and give you the cheeky kiss that you love so much. Keep him happy with compliments and see how the big boy welcomes you deep in his heart with open arms. It is as important for him to feel pampered and appreciated as it is for you. So, give him some much needed TLC, and watch him melt.